I spent an hour curled up in the little garden, my magical Macbook Air friend sitting on a wooden step in front of me, broadcasting my first online Sensuality and Seduction class to the world.
Myself and 50 kickass women, from as far as Australia to my familiar streets of New York City, spent 60 gorgeous minutes igniting our imaginations, creating our “seduction stories”, laughing and sharing secrets about the importance of body language and signature scents.
And now, as night falls, and I sit in a candlelit cafe tucked in the mountains, I was thinking about what we talked about today and I was thinking about what TRUE MAGNETISM means.
My brain whirled with these questions:
♥ What is True Magnetism?
♥ What is that wild magnet in our souls that draws us to each other?
♥ How do we cultivate that magnetic pull?
Less than a month ago, my forehead against some East Village bar, listening to some sad songs on a jukebox, I sighed to my dear friend, Jaye, “I think I lost my magnet.”
Fast forward to a mere 21 days later, Spring approaching on the edges of New York City, bringing longer days and warmer nights….my magnet feels charged, pulling the good things to me once again.
But how do you re-charge an inner magnet? And what the fuck is this magnet anyway?
The magnet is the truest reflection of you.
For example, I was talking to my friend, Desiree, the other night, who is a writer and storyteller, and who just won a major story slam. She was glowing as I was asking her questions about it, and her friend jumped in and said….. “She’s been on FIRE lately.”
Your magnet is your fire.
If you’re feeling like you’ve lost your magnet lately, here’s my tips on how to find it again and get that fucker working.
♥ Throw Yourself Into Some Serious Self Care.
Yes. I know. If you’re feeling like you’ve lost your magnet, you might be in the head-under-the-covers-maybe-I’ll-just-watch-Netflix-some-more stage. Just doing something simple, like dragging yourself out and searching for a “Signature Scent” for Spring might whip you back into shape.
Now. I can see you shake your head at me right now. “Veronica, what in the hell does going to get some perfume or oils have to do with this?”
My love. My sweet darling. It has everything to do with it. Smell triggers gorgeous emotions in us, and not only that scent is our biggest connector to memory. To start fresh and find your magnet again, what kind of scent is going to be your “fantasy” of you?
I personally dig fresh pressed from the peel orange oil and I fiend over dark sensual scents like Gucci Rush and Obsession. What’s your signature scent favorites?
♥ Do Something That You Are Wildly Passionate About For 30 Minutes Today and Get A Text Partner.
In the midst of my lost magnet, Bastard Keith (Burlesque MC/Singer/Writer) and I started an hour long writing session project. Basically, we would choose an hour during the day, and five minutes before he would text me to get ready. At that point, I shut off my internet, open my pages document and let my fingers fly for an hour. For some reason, knowing that he was somewhere in Brooklyn doing the same thing, kept me on task. Trust me, those thoughts like – hey- the-dog-probably-needs-to-go-for-a-walk-right-now or, damn,-I’m-feeling-hungry-maybe-I’ll-just-go-grab-some-lunch definitely came up, but I shoved them down because at the end of that hour, Bastard Keith is going to be texting me how I did, and I want to kick ass.
This mini-accomplishment of working creativity on my writing helps me feel good about myself and charges up that magnet.
♥ Do Something That Is Good For You For About For 30 Minutes Today and Get A Text Partner.
Notice I didn’t say “wildly passionate about”, but “good for you”. I’m talking about the shit that you do now, that a month from now Future You will be psyched that you did. My friend, Kristi Klein and I work out and then text each other pictures afterwards. When I see her picture come through on my phone, it motivates me to get my ass moving. By the end of it, I feel great, like I did something right, and then I send stupid pictures like this. You know, pictures that you never needed to see, that I don’t know why the hell I’m posting publicly:
♥ Go Out Dressed Up as Fantasy You.
The winter up in the old New York City has been dragging. It snowed the first day of Spring. And if I have to look at anything resembling a winter coat or clothes, I want to just rip it to shreds.
Last week, when the morning was filled with rain and clouds and I could feel the weather creeping into my mood, I fought back with dress up. I had ALOT to do. I planned on bringing my computer to a local cafe to work and I decided I was going to dress up to make myself feel better . I warmed up my hot curlers, pulled on my nude silk stockings, listened to my “Voodoo Playlist” while I streaked on my black liquid cateye, slipped into a 1940s chocolate brown and pink dress, and stepped out the door in my t-strap mary jane shoes. I felt like a wild world dominating femme fatale and at that coffee house, my fingers tapped that keyboard a million miles an hour, getting my stuff done and being a boss.
Go-Go Magnet Power!
What helps you rev up your magnet?
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Wanna learn more with me? Well I’m teaching LIVE in NYC this month and on the ol’ internets……