Wanna Be My Valentine? Here’s HOW: International Valentine Exchange!

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The Revolverlution international Valentine’s Day Exchange is BACK!
And I. Want. YOU.
I made a video to tell you all about it:

This is what YOU do:
Email your name and mailing address to revolverlution@live.com.au by midnight on January 27th.
You will receive a name and mailing address to your email that is your Secret Valentine.
 You make a Valentine, find vintage Valentine’s, write a poem, write a story, type a letter, make a collage, whatever is fun and creative in letterform that you want to send to your secret valentine to make their day.
Send in the mail by February 3rd and wait for yours to come in!

It’s that easy!

We had over 400 people in 22 different countries participate last year.
Let’s spread the word and make this a success!
Please share this on your Facebook, Twitter and Blog.
Together we can make a difference.
Thank you to Lady Cyanide and Sarah Nelson to help make this possible.

Always your Valentine….

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My White Swarovski Crystal Burlesque Costume for Auction on Ebay!


Yep. That one!
The bra, the pasties, the bottoms and the headpiece feather all on sale as a package together on EBAY!
The white handmade Swarovski crystal one-of-a-kind costume I wore in the beginning of this video.
The costume I wore performing in Paris for the first time at the Locomotive.
The costume I’ve worn all over the world and in my first burlesque singing number – doing “My Heart Belongs To Daddy”. (Thanks for the video, Lavender Firefly!)

In 2015, I’m working on building new numbers and new costumes,
so I’m selling this beauty…
so YOU can have something lovely and beautiful and new to you
and I can make something lovely and beautiful and new to me.
YAY.
Isn’t it fun when that works out?
It has lots of magic in it and I’ve had some incredible performances around the world while wearing it – I’m passing on that magic to you!
I will also autograph a photo and send to the winner and include a hand-written note if you would like that.
I’m very excited for the person that wins this!
Thanks for peeking at it!

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How To Tuesday: 3 Easy Ways to Overcome Shyness

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Forgive me.
I’ve been a hiding a little.
I’m the one under the massive wide brimmed yellow hat and oversized sunglasses…..over here.
I’m working on boldly bringing the Danger Diary further into 2015 with a new look, new ideas, new classes and new kickass ways to world dominate.
Today I’m working on some serious 2015 dream planning and goal setting, so I wanted to share with you my shyness blog that I wrote after a 2am conversation with Jeff, Burke, Paul, and Jordan. I think it’s time to dive back into this one, as we are all taking steps to push ourselves beyond our comfort zones this year.
Here are some tips that we thought might help you out a bit:

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Tip #1: Make “How Are You?” Be a Real Interaction.

Think about it. You probably get asked how you are in causal conversation at least once a day. If you want to take it to the next interesting step above and beyond just mindlessly muttering, “Fine. You?” – this tip is for you. The question “How are you?” is a key to conversation, a verbal foot in the door. Slay your shyness by answering this with enthusiasm or interest because almost no one does.

Here’s what you do: The next time anyone asks you: “How Are You?” – make sure to answer in 3 complete sentences. Make those 3 sentences true and interesting things about what you are doing, working on, etc. Your fourth sentence should be “How are things going with you?”

Example: A girl who is a regular at the coffeehouse I go to, makes room for me to sit on the bench and automatically says, “Hey, how are you?” I think she’s cool and seems interesting and could possibly be a friend – so I say:

“Today I’m trying to be productive. I’m working on writing a chapter in my book and then I’ve got this dance thing I’m going to later. So it’s going to be busy, but awesome, hopefully. How are you doing?”

Replying like the way I did to her question will encourage her to give me more information about her life and her day and both of our replies can be great hooks for deeper conversation like: “Oh! You’re a writer? What are you working on?”

Conversation started. Shyness lost.

Tip #2: Practice being Badass and Bold on People in the Service Industry.
I’m talking about waiters, the guy behind the counter in the deli, the girl who cuts your hair, the guy who makes a mean cup of coffee for you in the morning….because, let’s face it, part of their job is to kinda be nice to you, so this is good practice ground.

The first year I landed in New York, I was a waitress. People rarely engaged me in any kind of meaningful or interesting conversation. In fact, they rarely looked me in the eye when they ordered. They would bark out their order looking down at the menu and then shove the menu at me to take while continuing the conversation with their friend. It was like serving a bunch of zombies.

I had to be there for an 8 hour shift. And trust me when I say this, I would have been really happy to have a genuine interaction or a friendly human exchange somewhere in there. I would have welcomed it wholeheartedly.

So practice a short conversation on your waiter or your morning barista. Even if it’s a simple “Hello, how’s your day going?”  Make eye contact. Smile. Ask one question.

Making eye contact and acknowledging another human being is half the battle.
We’re all freaked out.
We all get stressed and shy.
There is no such thing as 100% superhero self-confidence. It doesn’t exist.
Everyone on this earth is here working out some bullshit. Trust me on this.
Don’t ever think that everyone else is okay and you’re the only one struggling with this. They are probably more freaked out and struggling and worried what you’ll think about them!
So shake it off. And dive in.

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Tip #3: Channel Your Inner International Spy.

Fuck being seen as shy! Turn that into being “mysterious” or “the silent type”.
Observe and ask them questions.
Put the pressure on them to carry a conversation.
People love talking about themselves and their interests. So if you are one of the more “mysterious” type, you might have trouble figuring out what to say. Instead of planning it out awkwardly or stressing about generating a conversation… simply take a minute to observe them and ask a genuine question. Like: “Where’d you get that scarf?” or “I see you’re on a bike…you know any good places to ride around here? I just got a bike myself.”

Do you have any other tips to share that have helped you overcome shy moments?
Start a conversation in the comments.

Don’t be shy….*wink*

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The #1 Simple Secret to Success: How to Get It in 2015 (VIDEO)

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What sets your wild heart ablaze?
And…a question even more telling….
WHY do these things set your heart ablaze?

2015 is our year of ACTION, my darling Danger Addicts
and all action starts with inspiration.

In the 12 days of this new year,
I’ve seen the sun rise 6 times,
I’ve let my heart lead me on unknown adventures winding in the streets of this city,
I’ve danced my ass off at The Slipper Room, in a warehouse somewhere in Brooklyn, in a bar tucked down a windy street where the DJ spun vinyl on an old record player.
I’ve gotten back to getting my finger tips blistered from making the strings of my guitar hum,
I’ve written 3 love notes for strangers to find and hid them in the places I love most within 5 blocks of my apartment,
I’ve let someone I’ve known for 7 hours crash at my apartment and sleep 4 feet away from me (and he’s now a cool new friend),
I listened to revealing stories about old and new New York told by friends gathering in a candlelit magic parlour,
And I have been hanging out with my friends that inspire me to no end…
the ones that believe in me
and the ones that I believe in.
The friends that become family.
Co-conspirators.
Partners-in-crime until the end.

I just gave you the “what” I’ve done in the early days of this New Year.
But the “why” behind why I’ve done these things?
I am dedicated to a life of passion, of adventure, of love, of friendship, of really living after being attacked in the face by a rottwelier ten years ago and being struck with how fragile and short life really is.
I don’t want to be on my deathbed with regrets of what could have been.
That is what fuels me to push each day
to open and uncover its capacity for beauty/adventure/love/art/wildness.

One of my long-time friends that I’m continually inspired by, that I’ve been spending time with is Simon Sinek
here we are rocking in the second week of the year – out on the town in the city we love best.
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Simon created something called the Golden Circle which looks something like this:
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I believe that this is the core of success for all of us.
Most people and most businesses start from the outside in….
starting with the “what” and rarely even understanding or knowing their “why”.
Simon encourages people to uncover their “why” first…
as it is the KEY to everything to set your world into motion.

For instance, here’s a normal day to day example:

Don’t you hate it when you’re out at a party and someone starts up a conversation with:
“What do you do?”

Yeah.
Me, too.

I always found the “whats” to be tremendously boring.
But the “whys” to be far more interesting…
they hold the story behind it all.

Simon took all of that to the next level with his “Starts With Why” concept.

Want to find your Why?

Want to change your world in a mere 18 minutes?
Simon’s TED talk is one of the top 3 TED Talks of all time and is a MUST SEE for everyone who wants to make a serious change in their lives this year.

Knowing Simon has changed my life in such a positive way – and I’m excited that I’ll be doing one of Simon’s podcasts in the next month, as I uncover my own “why” on his show.

In 2015, I vow to live wildly and without regrets, push myself out of my comfort zone, gain inspiration from this gorgeous city and my dearest friends around me, quit being so goddamn hard on myself, take action on the things I’m passionate about and live with my eyes open to all the possibilities.

What do you vow to do this year?
Whisper to me in the comments and I’ll hold you to it…..

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The Secret Grandma Helen Told Me That Changed My Life.

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On January 6, 1929, a girl child was “born with the veil”.

Folklore that stretches from old Europe to the Louisiana bayou will tell you that a child born with a veil will have the ability to hear and see spirits, and has the gift to foresee the future.

That child of the second sight, was my Grandma Helen, daughter of Anna, who born to the wandering people of Czechoslovakia.

At this point, she’s been gone for longer than she was in my life,
but her spirit lingers,
she would never leave me completely….
a simple thing like death could not separate us.
I connect to her through the threads of things she taught me, through the curves of the letters I write on this page.
She lives in my bones.
In my breath.
In the whispers of the wind that hum with the cadence of her voice.

On this anniversary of her birth, I wanted to share one of my favorite lessons of Magic Grandma Helen here.

When I was small and being picked on at school, my Grandma Helen took me down by the lagoon.  We sat on the old dock together, the murky waters just a few inches away from the bottom of my sneakers, as she brushed my hair.  She was always fussing with my hair and telling me stories, and I’d sit there hanging on every word.

I remember the sides of the boats slapping against the dock with the rise and fall of the tide.

I remember seagulls gliding like cartoon Vs through the salt water air.  

I remember wanting to live under the ocean or with the seagulls in the sky – anywhere but on earth where I felt picked on and lost.

My Grandma continued pulling the brush through my hair and I wished that I could always feel as safe in the world as I did then.

When she was done, we walked back up to her house and she pulled my hair out of the brush.  It was like a little puffy cloud of my blonde strands.  She put it on the outside window sill and lifted me up to see it.

“That’s your gift to the birds to make their nest with.  Watch….”

And we sat down by the dock and waited and watched for what seemed like hours until a little brown bird hopped down and took it in its beak.

My Grandma turned to me and said,

“You stand tall and proud, you hear me?  Baby birds are going to sing their first song nestled in your hair.”

I never forgot that.

It made me feel like I was a part of the great mystery of life.

To this day, I leave the strands of my hair out for the birds to build their little homes.

By now, generations of baby birds have grown up singing their songs in my hair.

Each year when I do this, I think of what my Grandma Helen said to me that day down by the lagoon.  She left me with so much, and those gifts can be passed on across the world, to all of you who read this.

That way, her story continues….

And she never has to die.

Happy Birthday, Grandma Helen.

I celebrate you always in all that I do.
And the baby birds will have a home in the strands of my hair until the end of my days.
Thank you for showing me the way.
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Your January 2015 Tarot Horoscopes! (Picture Post)

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Happy 2015!
This photo was one of the first taken of me in 2015, performing a new number on stage at Dances of Vice, shortly after the ball dropped, and you can see the photographer captured me in a moment of pure bliss.
May we all have that wild, unapologetic, passionate, this-is-what-i-was-meant-to-do bliss in 2015.
More of that please!

Here is my first Tarotscope of 2015 for you -
please pass this on, share it, reblog it, retweet it, and share with your friends.
I put so much care, time and love into it – and I hope you can feel it.
AND if you’re curious about love spells and drawing more love into your life…. join us for The Parlour on Saturday at noon eastern!
I’ll put a love spell on you. 


Capricorn – December 22 – January 19: The Fool
Happy Birthday to my sweet Capricorns! As the first one getting their tarotscope read for 2015, the fact that the Fool card jumped out of the deck for you is quite fortuitous! The Fool is one of my favorite cards of the entire deck and is speaking of bringing you many beautiful brand new beginnings in 2015. Think of this… remember when you were a child and your imagination ran wild about things and plans you would do as an adult? The little version of you didn’t question any of it! Obstacles? What’s that? Well – that child version of you is ready to take over in 2015…get ready for your imagination to be soaring and your inspiration to be in hyper drive. Time to hurl yourself into the things you truly dream of in all aspects of your life and go on a wild adventure. Don’t think of obstacles – just go for it. New, beautiful and positive beginnings await you all year!

Question:  What would you do if you could not fail? Daydream about all the beauty you want to bring into your life…pick one adventure per month and journey into it!

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Aquarius – January 20 – February 18: The Sun
Aquarius - it looks like 2014 may have had some serious ups and downs for you. Do not worry….the Sun brings in the light for your 2015.
Time to bask in it!
The Sun card talks of utter joy and a feeling of “spark”. It is that knowing that you are headed in the right direction in your life journey and savoring every gorgeous step. It’s the brightness you will be giving off throughout this year. Imagine those cold moments of winter when the sun hits your face, and grows warm…it’s like a special gift. Enjoy 2015 as the sun shines upon you in all you do.

Question: What makes you truly happy….what are those moments when time escapes you when you are doing them? What are some of the happiest memories of your life? Name em’ and claim ‘em! Time to draw more, more and MORE of that to you in this year. 

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Pisces – February 19 – March 20: The Star.
Pisces….I’m going to be honest with you. While working on your shuffle, this card jumped immediately. I put it back in the deck because I’d only just started shuffling for you, and after 5 minutes of continued meditating and shuffling for you – The Star revealed itself again. This card was meant for you! My darling…now is a time for hope and renewal in your life.
Picture this: You.
Lying down in the grass, watching the heavens for a shooting star to streak across the sky to make a wish on. The Star card holds that energy…the feeling that a star is going to streak across the sky at any moment just for you – and it WILL. The Star is encouragement and inspiration for all that you wish to have in life. It is a new sense of confidence and support. Time to step into the spotlight of your own life. This card also lets you know that you will grow your own self-esteem this year. You will feel more confident than ever – fully accepting yourself as you are and knowing that you kick serious ass.
Question: Quick – what are three qualities that you possess that you are really proud of? Time the shine your best self out into the world and feel the star within you for 2015.

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Aries – March 21 – April 19 : 3 of Cups
Oh, my Darling Aries….such a juicy card jumped out of the deck for you in 2015.
Let me tell you a little story… there is a burlesque vaudeville house on the corner of Orchard and Stanton that waits for me at the top of a flight of stairs hidden away in New York City.
It’s called The Slipper Room…and when I walk through its doors, I feel more at home than I’ve ever felt in my life, and I feel surrounded by my truest and most dear friends that I can create anything with. The 3 of Cups is the embodiment of this feeling.
2015 will bring new friendships into your life that will make you feel supported, respected, and truly ALIVE. The beauty about the 3 of cups – is that all of these friends are on equal ground, there is none higher or lower than the other. They come to each other with mutual respect and admiration. Because this card is in the “cups” suit, it indicates that there is a deep emotional and creative connection with these friends. These are people that you’ve called to you through lifetime after lifetime. Have no doubt, you will be surrounded by friend family this year…and as a wild team, you will all help lift each other to new heights you would never have previously dreamed of.

Question: Who are the people in your life that make you feel most alive? Who stirs your creativity? Who do you feel a mutual inspiration buzz from? Seek these ones out and watch your life shine with their presence, as much as their presence shines in yours.

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Taurus – April 20 – May 20:  The Magician
Taurus! The Magician has one resounding message to give to you: “Everything You Need Is In Front Of You.” The Magician is the one card in the entire deck that has all of the suits (swords, pentacles, wands and cups) within it. This is an assurance for you that you are not “lacking” anything – so get out of that mindset and know that you have the tools and the drive to create and manifest all that you choose to. Everything you need is within you and before you. The Magician also tells us to tap into our “magic” side while also having firm grounding and a good practical standpoint as well. The mix between the magical and practical will make this year soar for you. Time to step into the Magician role and manifest all you wildly dream of in 2015, Taurus!

Question:  Name 3 positive things (big or small) that you have manifested in your life or called to you. Have no doubt you are a powerful magician…get ready to make more of this happen!

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Gemini – May 21 – June 20: Chariot
Gemini, my darling, The Chariot is lead by this beautiful horse who appears to you. This horse says – “Time to Take The Reigns.” The Chariot lets you know that in 2015 – you can truly overcome obstacles and ride to VICTORY. Grab a hold of those reigns and take control of what you want to create in your life. Whenever I get this card, I always take a moment and imagine I’m writing the story of my life. So, dear Gemini – you’ve got the pen – you’re writing the story. How do you want this to go? You are in the driver’s seat. Have no doubt. In 2015, when you start leading the direction that your heart has wanted to go in – you will see victories.

Question: Time to take action. Sit for a moment in a quiet space and write down three goals for your life (small or big) this year. Write down some simple steps you can make happen to get those things and point the Chariot in that direction! ONWARD!

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Cancer – June 21 – July 22:  The Empress
BAM, Cancer! Get ready for a sensual, gorgeous year – while you walk side by side with the Empress. The Empress is all about indulging in the beauty of the world…being surrounded by it, noticing it and BEING it. The Empress is a sensual creature who loves the pleasures of this world….the feel of grass between your toes, the lights of candles dancing on your warm and scented bathwater, the feel of raindrops hitting your skin on a hot day…. she takes pleasure in it all and she heightens your awareness to all of that this year. She is YOU indulging in the feminine aspects of yourself – whether you are male or female. Get ready for a whole new sensual and powerful world!

Question: When is the last time you tapped into that sensual side of you? The photo moment captured of me at the top of this post – I felt like I was on top of the world…pulling a silk glove off my arm and snapping it back…what pleasure! I was indulging in the delights of the Empress. How can you indulge in the pleasures of the physical world? Take yourself out to a gorgeous dinner? Splurge on those gorgeous sheets you’ve been looking at? Take yourself to the park and spread yourself on the ground and feel the powerful beauty of Nature all around you? What will you do?

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Leo – July 23 – August 22: 8 of Pentacles
Oh, hell yes, Leo! The spider weaves its own unique web and creates a home through his creativity. YOU are doing the same in 2015. The 8 of Pentacles talks about you have a “foundation” doing things you love and is saying that you will use 2015 to keep “weaving” and create mastery in things you have been passionate about. This card says to keep practicing, gain co-collaborators that will keep you on track, seek out a teacher, for you are all about GROWING and moving forward on the skills you are passionate about this year. This will make your spirit and self-confidence soar. Start weaving!

Question: Okay, Leo….let’s talk. What are you really into doing? What makes you passionate and excited that you are creating in your life? Last year, someone left a guitar leaning against my wall at a party I had. I started the “foundation” of learning how to play – and really want to continue that this year and weave more growth and music into my own web. What do you want to weave in?

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Virgo – August 23 – September 22: Ace of Pentacles
Aces in tarot ALWAYS bring new beginnings. This is a great way to kick off 2015! Check out the artwork in this card….see that spot right in the middle? That’s the tiny seed that grew into a massively abundant tree. Everything truly great, once started small. Dream big, see the wild beautiful possibilities in 2015 and plant those seeds. It is the year that you plant the “seeds” for something that you will see grow into something abundant, positive and strong.

Question: You have been dreaming about taking a serious chance on your future and starting something new. The ace of pentacles says that the ideas you create now – will blossom into abundance….what seeds you want to plant?

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Libra – September 23 – October 22: 9 of Cups
Libra! The “Wish” card of the deck jumped out for you! In the entire deck, the 9 of cups is one of the most welcome of all the cards. This is you living in the moment and great things happening as a result! The 9 of cups is that feeling that strikes you in the chest – that sunshine joy that just spreads through your body when something fantastic happens. 2015 will be about impossible things being made possible for you. This year, your power to “wish” and manifest will be stronger than ever. Good fortune waits for you. Go get it!

Question: Libra, be honest. What is your heart’s true desires? Time to make those wishes and set them into being. You are powerful. Whenever I get this wish – I always do this 3 ways….1. What’s a wish for yourself? 2. What’s a good wish you have for someone else? 3. What’s a wish you have for the world? Put it out there!

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Scorpio – October 23 – November 21: Ace of Wands
Another ace means positive new beginnings for you in 2015! The wands are ruled by the passionate element of fire and talk of CREATIVITY. This is about you finding your own creative voice in whatever you do. This card is about really “coming into your own” and having others recognize the powerful “true” you. As you continue into 2015, you will find your confidence increase as you have more a footing and idea of what you want to do and who you really want to be. You will feel truly inspired and have surges of energy that you haven’t felt in a long time. The ace of wands gifts you with inspiration, passion, and wild creativity. Time to be the true you.

Question: Scorpio, what kind of creative pursuits have you been fiending? Writing songs? Working on a book? Playing music? Painting? Studying dance? What is your creative jam? Time to go for it and feel you become more yourself than ever in 2015.

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Sagittarius – November 22 – December 21: 3 of Pentacles
The 3 of Pentacles talks of great collaboration in a work or dream project environment. See that picture in the card, Sagittarius? It’s about three coming together – three powerful forces on their own – to put their superpowers together to CLIMB THE MOUNTAIN and succeed. Yep. That’s the story of this card: Super Collaborations of Great Proportions! It is so hard to get massive things we dream of alone – time for your super team to launch into action! Each one stands solidly alone, but together they are unstoppable. 2015 is a year of successful collaborations that will bring you abundance and good things!

Question: Who is your “dream team” of collaborators? Reach out to people who inspire you to make big things happen this year. Teamwork will help bring your dreams into reality with ease in 2015.

I hope you enjoyed this month’s Tarot Horoscopes!
If you’d like to answer your questions in the comments below, I’d love to read your replies.
Let’s kick ass together in 2015!

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11 How To Kiss Tips and Facts: How Do You Flirt? (VIDEO)


Kissing is like
drugs
to me.
This GIF someone made of me making out with Emilie Autumn on stage
reminded about The Kiss post and I wanted to share that with you
if you haven’t seen it…
because we communicate 9 million things
to each other
with body language.

What are you saying, my darling?
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I watched this the first time with the sound off….
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There is real life chemistry in this video and here’s what you can learn from it:

About the Way We Flirt

♥ Hair Touching Signals: During a 51 second time period in the above video, a woman touches her hair every 15 seconds (watch at 10 seconds, 26 seconds, 35 seconds, 50 seconds and again at 1:01 seconds) This is a tell-tale instinctual flirting sign.

♥ Mirroring: At 2:52, notice the woman mirroring the exact same stance as the man with her hands behind her back. We mirror the actions people we are attracted to.

♥  Slightly Exaggerated Facial Expressions: Notice all the lip biting, lip licking and raised eyebrows with direct eye contact before the kiss even takes place. Women also tend to blink more around someone they are interested in (watch :10-:15 and :34-:35 to see a lot of blinking going on). Heightened facial expressions are a subtle sign of interest.

♥  The Eye Contact Gaze/Look Away/Gaze Back: We speak volumes with eye contact. The classic move of holding a direct gaze, looking down or away and then holding that gaze again is a subconscious flirting MUST. When looking at videoed performances of my burlesque routines, that is one thing I notice myself doing consistently – it’s my natural instincts in effect – flirting with the audience.

♥   The Innocent Brush Against: Notice our girl at 2:49, brushing down his chest after the kiss and then going on to mirror his body language. She is loving this guy.

♥   The All-Encompassing Move. Notice how the woman moves at the 1:14 mark – she leans in to his right and to his left while looking down and then ends touching his forehead with her own. This is a super hot flirty move – plus the foreheads touching signifies connection. Those moments before a kiss are electric…make them last with softly brushing noses, coming inches away from their lips with your own, and dragging the side of your face along theirs.

About the Way We Kiss

The interesting tell-tale signs of a kiss have nothing to do with the mouth to mouth part. It has everything to do with where we place our hands.

♥  The Romantic Kiss.   At 1:37 – the woman’s hands clasped behind his neck is the classic I’m-feeling-super-romantic-toward-you move. Think faerie tales and poetry.

♥ The I Want You Now Kiss.  Grabbing your lover’s face and cradling their face in your hands is a lusty hot signal. Watch 2:07 – serious, Brother, damn those are some moves.  I also like to throw in raking my nails across the back of a lover’s neck and taking their earlobe between my thumb and pointer finger and squeezing.

♥ The I Think You’re Cool But I’m Not Into You Kiss. At 2:02, notice how the couple is holding each other at the waist with distance in between like they are slow dancing in middle school. This couple has a appreciation connection, but there’s no love match there.

♥ The I’m A Little Kinky Kiss. At 2:18, notice our guy biting her upper lip. This is a playful message that he’s into a bit more than just your average romance.

♥ The Sensualist Kiss.  At 2:24, notice their noses softly dragging across each other while they kiss slowly. These are people who like to take their time and indulge in a world of passion.

What does your kissing style say about you?

DISH IT in the comments and share this post to see what kind of style your friends have!

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